Library tips for parents
Are you looking for tips on reading together with your child? We also offer reading tips for everyday situations in families with children, as well as for new and expectant parents.

Read to your child
Reading aloud to a child is a peaceful moment shared between parent and child, for example before bedtime.
Reading to children has many benefits: it develops their vocabulary, imagination and emotional intelligence. It is worthwhile reading to even very young children.
For more information on reading to children of different ages, visit the Read to Your Child website.
Satudiploma and lukudiploma
The library’s story diploma and reading diploma encourage reading!
You will receive a diploma when you read a certain number of books. You can choose the books yourself or select from a list of recommended books. The story diploma is intended for younger children and families, while the reading diploma is for primary and secondary school pupils.
Book recommendations
Book recommendations for everyday situations in families with children
Bath time
Chauvet, Isabelle: I’m taking a bath
Gliori, Debi: Allu in the bath
Gliori, Debi: The Little Owl’s Evening Bath
Janouch, Katerina: Ilona and the Wonderful Bath
Parenteau, Shirley: Silly Little Things
Wolde, Gunilla: Teemu takes a bath
Toilet matters
Conway, Gareth: The Little Penguin’s Potty Book
Corderoy, Tracy: Little Bear’s New Potty
Daynes, Katie: Explore! Potty
Gray, Dean: Who’s sitting on the potty?
Kirkkopelto, Katri: Oona and Eetu: don’t worry!
Lindman, Mervi: Peppe on the potty
Reid, Camilla: Emppu and the Big Red Potty
Syväjärvi, Annastiina: Cat Pee
Vestergaard, Hope: Toilet Troubles
Willis, Jeanne: Who’s sitting on the potty?
Your own teeth
Brandon, Taylor: The bird that was afraid to clean the crocodile’s teeth
Campanella, Marco: Hermanni Mouse at the Dentist
Carralo, Isabel: Little Rabbit’s Dental Problems
Garhamn, Anna-Karin: Dental work
Reuterstrand, Siri: Emppu at the dentist
Ross, Tony: I want my tooth
Schoenwald, Sophie: Teeth Brushing Day at the Zoo
Veittikoski, Niina: Hertta brushes her teeth
Giving up the pacifier
Koskimies, Pirkko: Pupu Tupuna: Tutti Lost
Künzler-Behncke, Rosemarie: Ann’s beloved dummy
Lindman, Mervi: Peppe is looking for his dummy
Moost, Nele: Farewell to the Pacifier
Nilsson Thore, Maria: The trio gives up their comfort blanket
Ross, Tony: I Want My Girlfriend Back
Teräs, Mila: Elli and the Pacifier
Weninger, Birgitte: Bye, everyone!
Going to bed
Bondestam, Linda: Good night, Earth
Brown, Margaret Wise: The Land of Nod
Forssén Ehrlin, Carl-Johan: The Elephant Who Wanted to Fall Asleep, The Rabbit Who Wanted to Fall Asleep
Gliori, Debi: The Wind’s Whisper
Hacohen, Dean: Under the Blanket!
Havukainen, Aino: Tatu and Patu’s Strange Dream Book
Inkpen, Mick: Sweet Dreams, Piggy Pig
Kubicek Boye, Helena: Bedtime Stories
Majaluoma, Markus: Hulda dear, let’s read a bedtime story!
Melling, David: It happened one evening
Mongredien, Sue: Pörrin and Grandpa’s Evening Activities
Mühle, Jörg: Just a little more
Robbins, Heather Roan: Little Bear’s Bedtime Book
Surojegin, Nora: Sleepless Hare
Teräs, Mila: Elli and the Dreamhead
Wilmore, Alex: Sleepy Bunny
Sick
Harjanne, Maikki: Minttu’s Medical Book
Hill, Eric: Get well soon, Puppe
Kanto, Anneli: Paavo Virtanen and the disease
Louhi, Kristiina: Tomppa and Doctor Korva
Reuterstrand, Siri: Emppu goes to the doctor
Scarry, Richard: Jussi Jänönen at the Doctor’s
Stenberg, Birgitta: Perttu in hospital
Wilson, Karma: Kalle Bear Gets Sick
Wolde, Gunilla: Sanna at the Doctor’s
Are you scared?
Andrae, Giles: Be brave, little penguin!
Bright, Paul: The Pöykäri and the Night Surprise
Chiew, Suzanne: No need to worry, Turo
Gustavsson, Per: What do princes fear?
Haapasalo, Jade: Light and the Darkness of Night
Hai, Magdalena: Mörkö Möö and Mikko Pöö
Hirvonen, Lauri: The Wind Tamer
Kostet, Jenna: Ilon Milli and Mölli the Fear
Kuusela, Anne-Maria: The fearful penguin surpasses itself
Leathers, Philippa: Hui, said Little Rabbit
McDonald, Avril: Jukka Hukka and the Shadow Monster
Nilsson, Ulf: Alone on stage
Pelliccioni, Sanna: Onni-poika and the Terrible Monster
Pirhonen, Nina: Leo the Lion Overcomes Fear
Reuterstrand, Siri: Emppu at a sleepover
Tommola, Anna: Säpsy defies fate
Aijälä, Elina: Hui
Defiance and tantrums
Aittokoski, Metsämarja: Pikkuli says NO!
Butler, M. Christina: Kaapo Kanin’s Grumpy Old Man
Chou, Yih-Fen: No says Mimi
Corderoy, Tracy: No!
De Seve, Mike: Grumpy Killi
Jones, Stella J.: The Bear’s Grumpy Day
Jäntti, Riikka: Little Mouse, Weather Vane
Kanto, Anneli: Kastehelmi Virtanen and her own will
Kirkkopelto, Katri: Oona and Eetu: Disagree
Korolainen, Tuula: Kissa Killin kiukkupussi (Kitty Kill’s Grumpy Bag)
Kuusela, Anne-Maria: Räyhä Ravun kiukkupuuska (Räyhä Ravun’s Tantrum)
Lindman, Mervi: Peppe gets angry!
Mäki, Anna Maria: Manna and the Belly Button
Pruuki, Heli: The Princess and the Pea
Scarry, Richard: Oh, No, Piggy!
Smallman, Steve: Mörkki, Am I grumpy!
Teutori: Miina and Manu: The Tantrum Book
Our new baby
Chapman, Jane: Love Never Ends
Cole, Babette: True Love
Frensborg, Maria: Me and the New Baby
Garhamn, Anna-Karin: Food and babies
Gray, Caroline: The World’s Best Big Sister
Horse, Harry: The Little Rabbit and the New Babies
Klingenberg, Malin: Five Hounds
Leblanc, Catherine: When I became a big brother
Louhi, Kristiina: Tomppa and Piimänakki
Ormerod, Jan: Exchange Babies
Pelliccioni, Sanna: Onni-boy becomes a big brother
Rosavaara, Katriina: Villiina and the Big Sister Package
Ste , Uta Charlotte: My mum belongs to me!
Envy and jealousy
Child, Lauren: This party is really mine
Fea ley, Jan: It’s good to be in the middle
Harlin, Anttu: Kikattava Kakkiainen and Mr. Moose’s Sandcastle
Kanto, Anneli: Perttu Virtanen and terrible jealousy
Kuusela, Anne-Maria: Koala Bear wants to be the best
Moost, Nele: I am the princess!
Scheffler, Alex: Pete and Pulmu: A New Friend
Teräs, Mila: The Moon-Haired Hobby Horse
Good manners
Cole, Babette: Princess Hoksunokka breaks the rules
Corderoy, Tracey: This is mine!
Havukainen, Aino: Veera’s Kitchen Chores
Kelly, Mij: Oh, come on!
McLaine, James: The Killers
McMillan, Sue: Laila & Harri: The Book of Good Manners
Pétigny, Aline de: Sauli and Good Manners
Ruuska, Kerttu: Elsa and Lauri at the party
Scarry, Richard: Thank you and you’re welcome
Bullying
Dunbar, Polly: Nuuni bites
Geisler, Dagmar: Ninni dares
Güettler, Kalle: No! Said the little monster
Hintsala, Jasu: You have such a long neck
Kaskinen, Anna-Mari: Too heavy a backpack
Kirkkopelto, Katri: Piki
Kuusela, Anne-Maria: Puspus Pusukala wants to play
Lindenbaum, Pija: Henna creeps into hiding
McDonald, Avril: Jukka Hukka and the Colourful Jacket
Nilsson Thore, Maria: The trio wants to play as a pair
Schopf, Sylvia: Shall we still be friends?
Difficult matters
Alanen, Noora: Miiru’s father is in prison
Georgiou, Melissa: Timo mou s his friend
Gray, Kes: Love Glue
Härmälä, Anna: Suruposki
Isoaro, Anna Elina: That night, winter came
Karsikas, Ilja: Aamos and the Sumac Tree
Katajavuori, Riina: Two Homes
Kostet, Jenna: Milli, Mölli and the Painter of Sorrows
McDonald, Avril: Jukka Hukka and Iso Hukka
O’By e, Nicola: Where is our home, Father Bear?
Salmi, Anna: The Leaning House
Thorén, Heli: Penny misses
Tiilikka, Elina: When Grandma Disappeared
Velthuijs, Max: The Frog and the Bird Song
Weninger, Brigitte: See you again, Dad
Daycare and school
Aubert, Dany: Daycare Begins, Little Bear
Gliori, Debi: The Little Owl’s Big Day
Havukainen, Aino: Tatu and Patu at Daycare
Kirkkopelto, Katri: Oona and Eetu: a day at daycare
Korolainen, Tuula: Snout towards school
Kuutti, Maria: Happiness and Aada at daycare
Melling, David: Huuko Goes to Nursery School
Pelliccioni, Sanna: Onni-poika goes to nursery school
Penn, Audrey: Sweet Secret
Scotton, Rob: Matti-Katti
Stewart, Amber: Esiko’s big step
Sundström, Josefine: Tam-Tam Goes to Nursery School
Venho, Johanna: Otto jumps over the ditch
Independence
Huovi, Hannele: Aha! said Pikkuruu
Pressler, Mirjam: Yes, we can do it
Rayner, Catherine: Aulis finds his paw
Tharlet, Eve: You can lea the other way around
Tiitinen, Esko-Pekka: Little Hedgehog Ihmetys
Waddell, Martin: Sweet dreams, little bear!
Willis, Jeanne: Don’t Let Go
Information for parents
Alfvén, Malin: The Book of Defiance
Aron, Elaine: The Highly Sensitive Parent
Furman, Ben: I’m proud of you!
Huttu, Tiina: Head first: how to support your child’s brain development
Irisvik, Satu: How to raise a digital native
Järvelin, Annika: Motherhood: wisdom, tips, peer support
Kauppila, Elina: Wonderful Family: The ABCs of Conscious Parenting
Laajasalo, Taina: When three becomes four
Mattila, Leea: What on earth? Lea to understand your child’s mind
Mikkonen, Jonna: A Behaviour Guide for Mothers of Boys
Märtha Louise: A child bo sensitive
Nordlund, Nina: Children and money: the basics of financial education for parents
Nurmi, Päivi: The Parent’s Book of Anger
Paalasmaa: Parenting wisdom for busy parents
Perry, Philippa: If only your parents had read this book
Puura, Kaija: How to raise your child to be a pleasant adult
Pöyhönen, Julia: Handbook of Emotional Skills
Rantala, Janna: Parintaju: relationships in families with children
Tommola, Anna: Calm and encourage: help for children in stressful situations
Book recommendations for new and expectant parents
Peer support and help with everyday life
Borgenicht, Louis
Baby: Owner’s Guide: Instructions, Troubleshooting, and First Year Maintenance
This guide, with its clear diagrams, introduces new owners to the most important functions, general maintenance and accessories for their baby. The book includes instructions for situations such as: troubleshooting based on the child’s sound signals, programming the nap mode, operating the child’s power supply, and selecting and setting the soother.
A fun and practical baby guide for tech wizards and tech novices, or anyone who is simply afraid of getting their hands dirty.
Enkenberg, Ilkka:
Fatherhood: True stories every father should read
Isäkirja is two men’s honest account of what it’s like to be a father. Through funny, poignant and true-to-life stories, Ilkka and Markus describe the emotional spectrum experienced by fathers, from joy to rage and from disappointment to pride.
Isäkirja is a source of peer support for existing fathers and an introduction for those who are planning to become fathers or will soon become fathers. For the child’s other parent, it is a unique window into the father’s experience. The comic-like and playful illustrations in the book allow the reader to reflect on the father’s emotional world in their own way.
Ford, Sarah
Take a deep breath! : mindfulness for imperfect mothers
Find your own way of being a mother in the midst of imperfect everyday life.
Breathe Deeply! is a guide for all emo people struggling with the trials and tribulations of motherhood. The book cheerfully guides the reader through the many challenges of motherhood. The goal: for everyone to stay sane. The book advises mothers on how to maintain their inner balance by taking time for themselves (e.g. by sticking their head in the freezer) and letting off steam through various mindfulness exercises.
Laane, Tanja
Motherhood Handbook
The life of a mother is a tangle of stretching and changing situations. It is full of emotions, and sometimes it is difficult to distinguish between exhaustion and happiness. Thousands of tip collections have been written for mothers: guides to parenting, baby care and organisation, as well as books on improving fitness. This is not one of them.
This work explores what mothers and Be hardians have in common and how gratitude is linked to the chaos of a mother’s handbag. What is a mental snooze button, where does everyday balance come from, and how can you take a break if you don’t have one?
Mothers support the world, but what supports mothers? Not endless performance tips, but gentle self-understanding. Could you be the mother who is enough for herself for a moment?
Naakka, Irene
Crazy as a mother
Naaka’s candid book tells how dreaming of having a child, pregnancy, childbirth and becoming a mother can mess with your mind.
The book tells the true story of a control freak who was depressed after giving birth to her first child, but eventually found balance in her family life and career.
This humorous and brutally honest work brings the reader very close to the feelings and situations associated with motherhood even before the child is bo . These are things that many people experience but may not dare or know how to talk or write about.
Paalasmaa, Ja
o
Parenting wisdom for busy parents
Parenting Wisdom for Busy Parents is written especially for parents who want to raise their children as wisely as possible but don’t seem to have enough time to wade through expert advice. This book answers questions that conce every parent. It presents the best parenting insights in a concise package suitable for busy mode parents and offers plenty of practical parenting tips. Parenting Wisdom for Busy Parents also helps you understand children at different ages.
Rantala, Janna
Mum, don’t obey! (all the parenting guides in the world)
After becoming a mother, child psychiatrist Janna Rantala had to refine her ideas about parenting. Even the most suitable academic qualifications were of no help when the children refused to get up or eat in the mo
ing, her partner was irritating, and she had to get to work on time.
Rantala entertainingly goes through everyday situations from waking up in the mo
ing to the playground and meals to evening activities. She breaks down our ingrained ideas about parenting and guides parents towards ways in which they can challenge their own practices.
Viholainen, Ville Heroes
of Short Films
Parenting is full of surprises – a whole nappy full of them.
Dark circles under the eyes, overflowing love, everyday struggles and, of course, broken nights. This thrilling guidebook introduces you to the special skills of childcare – whether it’s putting your child to sleep, feeding them, negotiating with a toddler or sneaking around like a ninja. This new generation parenting guide provides support and a breather for anyone navigating the busy years.
To the land of dreams
Andersson, Laura
You Can Sleep: How I taught my baby to sleep and how it’s done elsewhere
You Can Sleep is a fun and candid account of one family’s first year with a baby, from the perspective of sleeping – and staying awake. The book also guides readers towards a good night’s sleep through stories from other parents and interviews with experts. Do French babies really sleep through the night at two months old? What is the four-month sleep regression and how can you get through it? Are babies who take naps in the cold the reason Finnish parents have to stay awake for so long?
The result of one family’s sleep project was a simple list of tips to support your baby’s sleep jou ey from the very beginning. You can sleep, giving parents the tools they need to survive the baby years without dark circles under their eyes.
Keski-Rahkonen, Anna In Search
of Sleep Sand
Practical advice for solving sleep problems in babies and toddlers. The book is based on the latest inte ational and domestic scientific research, brought to life with real stories from families. The book presents a number of different approaches to solving sleep problems, which often improve the well-being of the whole family and from which each family can choose the methods that best suit their situation and values. The effectiveness, benefits and possible disadvantages of the different methods are presented in a balanced manner.
Pentley, Elizabeth A
Gentle Jou
ey to Featherbeds: A Gentle Way to Get Your Baby to Sleep Through the Night
The book is an excellent guide for parents of young children who suffer from sleep disorders. With Pantley’s advice, your baby will sleep peacefully through the night.
Stirling, Siobhan
Baby’s Sleep
Information about the sleep stages of newbo s and preschoolers. Guidance on common sleep problems and encouragement for tired parents. Various sleep techniques for a good night’s sleep.
Mealtime!
Heinonen, Piia For the
best of our family
The long-awaited guidebook on breastfeeding diets for babies with allergies. When a breastfed baby reacts to foods eaten by the mother, the easiest solution is often to modify the mother’s diet: the child continues to receive the undeniable health benefits of breastfeeding, and life becomes easier for the whole family when the baby is feeling better. At the same time, it provides an opportunity to discover new, delicious and healthy foods that are suitable for everyone.
For the best of our family offers support, encouragement, information and practical advice to families struggling with food sensitivities in babies and toddlers. In addition to medical experts, parents of children with allergies and recipe developers specialising in special diets also have their say.
Lehti, Anni
From a napper to a bon vivant
The book contains information about finger food and provides tips on how to get started with finger food, as well as offering a wide range of finger food recipes for every meal of the day, from breakfast to supper. All recipes have in common that they contain basic ingredients that can be used in several dishes in the book.
The instructions take into account both mixed-diet and vegetarian families, and each recipe can be adapted so that parents can enjoy the same meal. Nutritious and tasty foods make eating irresistible – even for babies!
Talvitie, Laura
Nykymutsin breastfeeding book
Information and support for parents. The book covers everything from breastfeeding to milk bars, possible difficulties and finally weaning. Alongside expert text, there are stories and experiences collected from mothers as peer support. The exercise pages help you reflect on your own feelings.
Väisänen, Outi From
the same pot, parts 1 & 2
One pot for babies and parents! After reading this book, your baby’s meals will no longer consist of endless purees and finger foods. Now you can make even more delicious food for babies and toddlers alongside your own meals – all in the same pot.
The book contains delicious and easy recipes for the whole family, which can be used to prepare meals for babies and toddlers. The book primarily provides recipes for ‘adult’ meals, from which a portion is set aside for children before adding salt, strong spices or other ingredients that are unsuitable for children. Two birds with one stone, and time is saved. Most of the recipes can be prepared in 30 minutes.
Early interaction
Pulli, Elina
Kukkuluuruu = Kuckeliku
Babies experience things with all their senses. Familiar sounds, smells and the gentle gaze of their carer create a sense of security for babies. When held in someone’s arms and in warm skin contact, babies lea to trust that they are being supported with love and good intentions. Through skin and movement sensations, babies lea to recognise the positions of their own bodies. They lea to enjoy cross-body movements and whole-body games, which are important for their development. Daily chores and shared play, in which the child can use all their senses, are of paramount importance. They create a strong foundation for the bond between the baby and the caregiver and for the child’s later development.
Salo, Saara
Care and play: interaction between baby and parent
The book contains information, songs and games that help develop good interaction. Through good interaction, children feel that they are loved, admired and valued in every way. The book is based on the principles of Theraplay interaction therapy. Because babies do not understand words, the relationship with their parents is initially built on wordless togethe ess, emphasising touch, closeness, joy and playfulness.
Various songs and rhymes give rhythm to the game. The book can be used from the pregnancy stage onwards. Where appropriate, the book can also be used with older children, such as adopted children. The book includes a music CD.
Sironen-Hänninen, Sirpa
Gently Caressing
Gentle rhymes for spending time with your baby. Holding, cuddling, tender looks, playing together, fooling around and sharing joy during care moments deepen the bond between baby and parent. Familiar nursery rhymes repeated daily give the baby a sense of security. The poems
in the book describe the everyday life of a family with a baby and encourage gentle and joyful interaction with the baby. Feeding, nappy changing and dressing are moments of communication in which the baby lea
s about themselves and the world. The poems progress in line with the baby’s growth as they gradually become interested in their surroundings and lea
new skills.
In addition to the rhymes, the book includes tips from a psychologist on how to ha
ess everyday interaction to support the baby’s overall development. It includes information, encouragement and ideas for interactive games – because everything important is here and now!
Parents alone
Helin, Sari
The Bad Mother’s Sex Book
How to survive a relationship and the busy years? What helps when the marital bed has become a family bed? The Bad Mother’s Sex Book, of course! With the tips in this book, readers can lea to say ‘maybe’ instead of ‘no’, giving sexuality a chance to be a life-enhancing force. Couples going through the busy years can’t find time for sex or are chronically exhausted. Sex doesn’t work, one partner doesn’t want it, or sex is just a few minutes of rushing that leaves you feeling bad. One partner stares at po while the other wants to look into their eyes. In relationships, there are far more arguments about who does the washing up than there are kisses, and many people ask themselves whether they still feel anything for their partner. Anger, arguments and insults have replaced love. Many people are disappointed and many are betrayed.
The Bad Mother’s Sex Book is based on the real relationship and sex problems of Bad Mother’s readers. These are solved by clinical sexologist and psychotherapist Leena Hattunen, whose advice has saved many relationships. Sari Helin is a jou alist and one of Finland’s most widely read columnists. Huono Äiti is a social media character created by Sari Helin, with whom anyone struggling through the busy years of parenthood can identify.
Mattila, Raisa
Relationship book for families with children
A guide for parents of young children who want to take care of their relationship while raising a family. Although Finnish relationships tend to deteriorate after the birth of children, the problems can be solved. This boldly honest, accepting and cheerful book helps with practical issues by providing expert knowledge, suggested solutions and peer support.
Rantala, Janna
Parintaju: relationships in families with children
Children’s developmental crises inevitably affect the relationship, and relationship difficulties cause significant symptoms in children. The birth of children creates a crisis in the relationship in a way that could previously have been avoided. If left untreated, the crisis can become a permanent state of affairs.
In her first book, Äiti, älä tottele! (Mother, don’t obey!), child psychiatrist Janna Rantala described the connection between relationships and parenting through the lens of family interaction. In this book, she takes the topic further: everyday conflicts are interpreted as manifestations of the couple’s relationship, and conflicts in the couple’s relationship are interpreted from the perspective of parenting.
At the heart of it all is the concept of partnership; understanding that a couple’s own perception of their relationship and the child’s position within that relationship may be the real cause of the crisis – and also the solution.
Reading tips
You can find book recommendations for children and young people on the Lukemo website maintained by the Children’s Book Institute, for example:
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